HOW TO IMPRESS HER???

I've learned a secret to impress the woman of your dreams (if you can find one at first place) which I'm gonna share today. It's a secret that probably not 1 in 1,000 men knows or will ever figure out on his own.

The REASON that most men will never figure out this particular secret is that it's TOO OBVIOUS.

Let me explain...

I personally think that most men feel a very powerful desire to IMPRESS women. If you watch the way a man behaves when he's talking to a woman he's just met or a woman that he's on a first date with, you can SEE IT.

Maybe you've been there yourself so many times. The feeling that you need to impress a woman usually comes along with another feeling: I DON'T WANNA SCREW THIS UP.

Here are some of the signs that a guy is feeling the need to "impress" the woman that he's talking to:

1) He tries to only say "cool" things, or things that will "impress" the woman.

2) He acts nervous and stilted during the conversation... sometimes coming across as "formal".

3) He tries to figure out what the woman wants to hear.

4) If he says something that the woman doesn't like, he "back-pedals" and tries to change what he said to suit the woman.

5) He doesn't say anything "risky", doesn't tease the woman, and doesn't do anything to upset her.

...in other words, when a guy is talking to a woman that he "likes", he's usually on his "best behavior", and he's trying to "put his best foot forward".

SSHHHHHHH THE SECRET

The secret to impress an attractive woman is STOP TRYING to impress her.

If you will just STOP TRYING to impress women, and do the things I'm teaching you instead, women will NATURALLY be "impressed" by you. TRYING TO IMPRESS A WOMAN DOESN'T IMPRESS HER.

So let's break this down...

WHY IMPRESSING WOMEN IS THE WRONG ROAD

You might think, what’s wrong with trying to "impress" women, anyway?
Well, to start with, EVERYTHING.

When you intentionally try to impress a woman, you send the following messages on a "subtle" level:

1) I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I will try to "impress" you instead.

2) I'm not comfortable enough around women to just act normal.

3) I'm insecure.

4) I don't know how to make people around feel comfortable with me.

Ouch! But it's the truth.

Women can TELL INSTANTLY when you're "trying".

The conversation doesn't feel "normal", your body language is strange, and you can't seem to have a normal conversation. The bottom line is that trying to impress a woman usually has the OPPOSITE effect.

It not only makes you look like a nervous guy who can't make normal conversation... it also BORES THE HELL OUT OF WOMEN.

WHAT TO DO INSTEAD

OK, so you're out having a cup of tea with a beautiful woman you just met a few days before... She asks you what you do for a living.

Should you answer with:

1) "Well, I'm a software engineer for one of the biggest IT companies in India that makes sophisticated widget plotting algorithms. I've been with them for three years, and I'm about to be promoted to ALGORITHM MANAGER soon."

2) "I do stunt work. Have you ever seen it in a movie when an actor has to reveal his ass? Body double - That's my job."

If you want to try and IMPRESS the girl with your cool high-tech job, then #1 will work just fine. Unfortunately, it won't impress her at all, and it will make you sound like a jackass who is trying to sound cool.

If you want to ACTUALLY impress her, try #2.

Because most men don't have the BALLS to say something like this when a woman asks a "serious" question like "Wat do you do?".

If you REALLY want to make a long-lasting impression, KEEP THE HUMOR GOING. She'll say "No, really... what do you do?".

Answer with: "No, really. Haven't you seen Saawariya??? That much talked about towel dropping scene? It wasn’t Ranveer… it was actuallyyy… (give a pause and do overacting of feeling shy) … me! (say with a sly smile)".

Makes sense? Yes? good. No? even better because that's how Attraction works. It almost always defies Logic. Try not to give a direct answer to a Woman unless it's No. Make her work a little to get something out of you. Such behavior creates all sort of powerful emotions... curiosity, mystery, humor and fun.

The most IMPORTANT thing you can do to IMPRESS a woman is make her feel a powerful emotional ATTRACTION for you. This feeling will stay with her long after you have left and gone home.

And it's the one thing that will make women pursue YOU... and try to impress YOU.

What's the best way to do this?

1) Stop trying to IMPRESS women. Stop now.

2) Be a regular to my blog for more ;O)

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-AG

PS: This excerpt is an edited version from a David De Angelo's book. David is a renowned dating guru himself.