Falling in LOVE... EXPOSED!!!

Well, THERE'S NO SUCH THING, THERE'S NO SUCH THING, THERE'S NO SUCH THING!!!

Yeah, you read it right. There's no such "thing" as love. There's no such "thing" as passion. There's no such "thing" as attraction or chemistry or lust.

I know, I know, you're saying. That's the problem ... for most of you, most of the time and I say there's no such thing.

But that's not what I'm talking about, so pay close attention. I'm not saying that people don't experience states of "attraction" or "chemistry" or "love". What I am saying is that these states are processes that take place inside the human mind and body.

Ok. Since I'm being pretty general and theoretical here let's get a bit more specific and talk about what every man dreams about: falling in love.

Now, do you think "love" is based on some mysterious "chemistry" that flows between two people? Maybe it's caused by a naked little angel named Cupid who shoots an arrow into your ass?

No, Here's how people fall in love: First, understand you do NOT fall in love with someone when you are in their presence. Never.

You fall in love when you're off by yourself, thinking about them afterwards. Let's take an example to understand how it happens: you go out with a beautiful girl, maybe even one date. You spend some quality time with her and then you go home and you're lying there, thinking about her. And you form an image of her in your mind. And as you do that, you start to list to yourself all the qualities about her that you like, "She's so... , she's so... , she's really..."

Maybe then you picture you and her having lots of fun in all sorts of situations. Then you get that warm, funny feeling right in your solar plexus and then, the nail in your coffin, you say her name to yourself 2 or 3 times. If you're really a geek, maybe you even dance around the house singing it! Or you possibly go about bring up her name in every conversation.

Sound familiar? Now, as you recall the times in your past when you did this, were you then able to stay cool, in control of yourself AND the relationship? Or were you calling her every day, always wanting to see her, and eager to kiss her ass, to the point where she, of course, dropped you?

Here's the point: "love" is a process people do to themselves! It's not a "thing" you trip over or a "hole" you fall into. And I know, even though I'm not there watching you that as I describe it here on this blog, you recalled and went through that process yourself, and recalled the feelings associated with it.

So if you can make someone feel a strong sense of attraction + a strong sense of connection (rapport) for you, which lasts even when you are not around, and can systematically amplify it further, you can almost make anybody fall in love with you.

BUT, BUT, BUT in real world , it's not as EASY as it sounds. ONE goof up is enough to ruin all your chances with your DREAM GIRL and can put you in a damage control mode forever.

Remember they say it for a reason... PRACTICE makes a man PERFECT. ;O)

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-AG